Be bold! Most boys like it very much if his partner takes the active role in kissing. You should make the first few moves, but make sure he is comfortable with them and with you. Just make sure you're ready for this. Remember to give chance to the guy. After the guy kisses, you can curl your arms round his neck for emotions to groom deeply. Give him the chance of first passionate kiss. Convey your emotions by your lips!
Steps
- Chat the boy up.Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows [just make sure it isn't a secret that may turn him off or make him feel awkward or disgusted by you], or just by talking nicely to him.
- Flirt.Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.
- Be forward about your feelings for him. Definitely don't play with his mind. No one likes to be messed around. if you like him, make it clear without seeming desperate. what are you going to gain by acting excessively hard to get and making him feel like he hasn't got a chance; he'll just get tired of it an move on and you'll both miss out!
- Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys love holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!
- Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.
- Start slow. If he's too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.
- Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, ditto. If he is angry, then abort the situation- no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
- Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again.
- If this continues for awhile, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then kiss him one last time touch his back!
- When you're done, laying down is one thing to do and not talk.
- Don't start making-out with him right after your first kiss.
- Guys like kissing, there's no doubt. Sometimes you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence.
- If he does not like you then he does not, try and get over it. Also, don't try running back to him or running after him. That won't even make him think twice!
Tips
- The first few times that you kiss him make sure that it's not in front of a whole bunch of people--especially people that you or he knows. A lot of people are uncomfortable kissing in front of others, yet enjoy it in private. Secluded areas are an excellent place to make your move!
- Smell great, wear some cologne or perfume but not too much.
- Don't wear lipstick or sticky lip gloss that will make them worry they are getting it all over their face. Any simple, flavored lip balm will do nicely, especially Lip Smackers with Strawberry, and Watermelon flavors. Lip Smackers has a nice sheer color, it isn't sticky, you can get it at any drugstore and it is very kiss friendly!
- Listerine pocket mist and strips (silent) are great ways to zap the bad breath fast. Drink water too.
- Don't smoke cigarettes, as some men don't like that, and try to avoid alcoholic drinks. Brush your teeth regularly for the best effect, and just to be safe, always carry a breath freshener (chewing gum, mints, etc.).
- Don't make a mess out of it. Not the first kiss. It may be unpleasant for some people.
- Make yourself available, but don't attack him. Let him know that you're ready but allow him to go in for the kill.
- Most guys want to kiss you. If you think he wants to kiss you, but just is too shy, go ahead and move in.
- Make sure that you both are alone so that it's just the both of you and when you kiss it will be a little more romantic. Even if you haven't kissed before make it seem as if you have.
- While kissing, if in the right position, touch his face, chest, or back.
- If you don't want the guy to get to handsy hold his hands down by your waists, ute but he can't grope you.
Warnings
- Make sure that if all you want to give is a kiss, you make clear that is all you are going to give. Set your limits.
- If at all possible, try not to use chewing gum to freshen your breath. Chewing gum builds up saliva in the mouth which, if you've had something strong to eat or drink, can make your breath smell worse than it was.
- If you want to show passion in your kissing do not eat the person off like a rottweiler - major turn off.
- Accept rejection. If you are more mature about it, they may start to like you and change their mind.
- After you kiss don't act all happy and peppy, that's a turnoff to some guys. It shows them you really haven't kissed a lot.
- Don't act depressed or sullen after you kiss; it just might send the wrong message across.
- Don't use a kiss to let a boy know how you feel about him. As romantic as it sounds to start a romance with a bang, if he isn't interested in one, or if there are reasons he isn't taking the initiative with you, you might end up causing some problems for yourself.
- Don't do anything you don't want to. If he pressures you to do something you don't want to, he probably wasn't the right ONE.
- Make sure that you don't drink milk or take any liquid medicine right before a kiss, because it may leave a bad aftertaste in your mouth.
